Why do we love?

TOday's Trybe "You Can Do It" program sure was an eye-opener. First time going for Trybe's flagship activity,and continued on my learning journey about different kinds of leadership and interacting. Not exactly two of my strong points. Well, I finally decided,with a significant amount of advice from a close friend that Im gonna pursue developing my communication and "soft" leadership skills. Haha,something for me to find meaning in this run-up period to NS! I dont think slacking off at this moment in time is going to do any joy for me once I enter the green community,so The TimE Has Come to step up a gear or two!

So here's my plan for the next 3-4 months. Volunteer at Trybe,find a job to support my excessive travelling expenses (one of few reasons I miss about being a student). Tmr's another day of potential learning at Henderson, hopefully Im grouped with the same facilitators as today, wanna analyse their different patterns in facilitating. Haha,sound so professional and robotic! =X Wed going for that interview,that unknown job interview with a mysterious manager of a friendster contact that offered me one at Clarke Quay. If I get abducted,everyone take note that I went to Clarke Quay to meet with the interviewer at 4 pm ok!! Haha.. No worries la,got that aura around me. Hehe.. Nah,just feel it'll be alright. Got a chance to rope in a few more friends who are job-hunting also. So yeah, worth a look-see-look-see.

Today I was chatting with a friend who I just got to know. She has a phobia. Which I think she wants to get rid of, but is just unsure of whether she can pull it of. Either that or she's other things that are priority over it. Hmmm... Well, I asked her if she will like to overcome it, and she said something like maybe when got time she will. That got me thinking back on the predetermination theory a few weeks back. If my friend really wants to overcome it, she shouldn't have said "maybe when got time", it should be something more sure at least. Like " Within the year, at least I will try". Goal setting...... Just like my household chores I need to do,if i keep thinking that i'll do them when Im more free,Im never gonna get them done. Need to specifically target completing them by a time,or start on it at a certain time, then i can do it. Tested it out today. And wow man! I completed more household chores in half a day then I did in 1 month! Haha! Goal setting works! =D

Tmr,gonna continue testing. I must wake up by 0600,wash up by 0605,bathe by 0611,pack up by 0621,get out by 0630. Haha,so clockwork-like. But just try la.. Hehe. Oh yeah,and I aim to get that mp3 before Feb! Else i'll just doze off while doing my jogging and while travelling around. =D